it’s not that I “prefer” you don’t touch me, it’s that being touched makes me feel like my skin is on fire. it’s not that I “prefer” you don’t make loud or squeaking noises around me, it’s that they literally make my ears hurt. I don’t just prefer to wear sunglasses and headphones, I need those things to function
yes, you should still try your best to navigate peoples preferences. but with sensory issues, it’s a matter of accessibility. some sensory input causes me pain. some cause me to have a meltdown. but either way, I will not trust you if you continue to trigger my sensory issues despite me telling you not to
